Henry David Thoreau, philosopher, “in my house I had three chairs, one for solitude, another for friendship, and the third for society.”

A philosopher alone in a cabin in the middle of the forest. Everything else is silence. For decades and decades, Henry David Thoreau has been the canonical example of simple living and meditation. Phrases like the one that heads this article about the chairs that the American thinker had in his country house. But history has not been exactly like that: Thoreau’s cabin was less than three hundred meters from the train track; He, in fact, went down to the town almost every day and, once, he put almost thirty people in there. The explanation is simple, of course. Thoreau’s quote (his entire work, in fact) is not about loneliness, nor about self-sufficiency, nor about self-control. The phrase is actually about balance. What exactly does Thoreau say? The text is in Walden (1854)in the chapter dedicated to visitors. It is also slightly different from the one that usually circulates: he says that he had “one chair for when he is alone, two for when a friend visits him and three for society.” And it seems like a matter of nuance, it’s true. But it is not. When Thoreau wrote this he was already fed up with being called a ‘hermit’. He says it himself in the book (“I think and love society as much as anyone else”), but above all he shows it. Henry received more visitors during his forest retreat than at any other time in his life. His experiment in recollection (the two years, two months and two days that it lasted) was a period of self-knowledge, but nothing more. It was Thoreau playing to find out who he wanted to be when he grew up. And why is all this important? Often, we think that others can help us because they have gone through the same things as us; because they have climbed the same mountain as us. But it’s not true: no one is actually climbing that same mountain. Others are helpful because, as they climb their own mountains, they have a unique perspective on what lies ahead and what we have left behind. We live in an epidemic of loneliness. In November 2023, the WHO declared unwanted loneliness a global health threat and set up a commission on the matter, which published its report in 2025. That’s where Thoreau can help us. Because the lesson of the three chairs is not what they sell us. It’s not “sit in the first chair.” The lesson is to have the three chairs ready: seeking moments of chosen solitude feels good, but imposed and chronic loneliness makes us sick. So yes, it is worth remembering good old Henry David Thoreau: let’s count the chairs carefully. Image | Yilei (Jerry) Bao | Abinash Jothimani In Xataka | Arthur Schopenhauer, philosopher: “The first forty years of our life provide the text; the next thirty, the commentary”

Henry Martín applauds the work of Santiago Giménez in the national team

The star striker of the Águilas of Club América, Henry Martín has established himself as one of the great figures of the Mexican team in recent years. not only for his great role in the Nations League, but also for being the only one to score a goal for El Tri in the 2022 World Cup in Qatar. Despite all this, the player is in the fight to get a place among those called up for the Mexican team that will be under the command of Javier ‘Vasco’ Aguirre for the 2026 World Cup that will be held jointly between the United States. , Mexico and Canada. The striker believes that he still has a lot to offer the team, although he recognizes that there are other great figures who are active abroad and have become the future of a team that seeks to once again position itself among the best on the planet and achieve historic milestones in tournaments. of FIFA. In statements offered to Mediotiempo, Henry Martín maintained that one of these figures is Santiago Giménez, who will become the face of the Mexican team for the future due to the great quality he has shown on the field of play. “It really makes me very happy and I say it from my heart, the moment they are living. Raúl, we know what happened, what he suffered and it makes me very happy because he experienced something similar to what I experienced; He spoke about the sporting moment, where he had a bad time, where he was suffering, for him to re-emerge in that way we must applaud him for his character, the mental strength that you have to have to get out of a slump, that is very strong,” he expressed. “And with Santi I am very happy with his age, what he is achieving, the great goals he is scoring. We know that it is the future of Mexico. We have to take care of him, we have to protect him, because he has many more years to give to the National Team. And he will be in one, two or even three more World Cups if everything goes well, that’s how it will be. “He is the future of the National Team,” he added. Talk about the present Henry Martín also spoke about the current situation that El Tri is experiencing since the arrival of Javier Aguirre and Rafael Márquez, highlighting that there is strong competition and that causes each of the athletes to show their best level. “The present he is experiencing makes the rest of us improve, it gives Raúl strong competition; Raúl also gives him strong competition and right now me; So I have to do my thing too. Because it is not the decision of any of the three who is going to play, nor who is going to go to the World Cup, but we have to make the decision difficult on the field,” the player concluded.

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