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One of the most fascinating things that Japanese language has is the ability to Define with an expression a concept that outside its territories can go through authentic Marcianada. They have a word to explain almost all these complex situations from the prism of the West, where we would surely need an extensive phrase to try to explain it. The same thing now happens with Butsukari OtokoLiterally, men who ram women. Now it’s time to explain it.
Aggressions in crowded spaces. Japan Times counted on a trend that has gone more in the nation. In Japan, trains and crowded stations have generated a worrying problem: the aggressive behavior of certain men who, under the name of ぶつかり男, o Butsukari Otoko, (“Men who ram”), deliberately attack women in stations and stairs.
These individuals, mostly called Chūnen Dansei (“Men of Medium Age”), have been captured on multiple occasions impacting with their bodies, elbows or even with more violent blows such as punching and kicking. In fact, Since 2018, there are videos of these attacks frequently circulating on social networksevidencing the magnitude of the problem and revealing that most victims are women, pregnant women and/or people with baby strollers.
The reasons. Experts argue that these aggressors They act as a form of SunToresu Kaishō (“Stress release”)choosing smaller or considered vulnerable victims. Some simply ram in silence, while others They verbalize their aggression with phrases like Jama Nanda Yo (“You’re on my way”, or Doke Yo (“Move”).
In addition, along with these physical attacks, there is another common problem (this is extendable to all nations): The presence of the dokanai ojisan (“Men who do not move”)who block spaces and resist giving way, even in priority areas.
Lack of terminology for women. Although there are specific terms for aggressive men in public transport, there are no equivalent for women with similar behaviors. In this sense, The term neutral butsukari kata has been suggested, but its use is not extended.
In these situations, The most common answer is to say Summimen(“Excuse me”)although phrases like Tōrimasu, (“I’m going to pass”) or Tōshite Kudasai, (“Please let me pass”) they can be more effective. That said, in the case of the Butsukari Otoko it may be necessary something more energetic as a Kudasai doite, (“please, move”).
What to do before an aggressive act. Japan Times counted that if the clash is intentional, A natural reaction can be exclaimed Itai, (“It has hurt me!”) Or simply Abunai, (“care!”). However, experts seem to recommend Avoid aggressive responses like Fuzakeruna(“Leave nonsense!”) O Nan’nano, (“What is your problem?”), Since they could trigger a greater confrontation.
In severe cases, common sense is advised: ask for help with a Kudasai Tasukete, (“Help, please!”) And, if necessary, submit a complaint for damage.
Legal consequences to butsukari. Railway companies have warned that These aggressions constitute what is called in the nation as Meiwaku Kōi (“annoying behaviors”)together with the use of the mobile while walking and other actions that can lead to crimes such as aggressions. In fact, some victims of these cases have reported that It is essential to make a complaint to the police immediatelygiven that Some butsukari are repeat offenders. Plus: It is also recommended to take photos of the aggressor if possible.
Finally, The Times report remembered that in stations and trains or meters there are other vulnerable groups that also face difficulties. People in wheelchairs are usually victims of people who sneak in line, especially in elevators. Recommendation? Phrases like Norimasu, (“I’m going to go up”) or Orimasu, (“I’m going to go down”) can help in these cases. Also, if someone is observed having problems, phrases such as Tōshite AGETE KUDASAI (“Please let him pass”) or doite AGETE KUDASAI, (“Please do aside”) can be very useful.
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