There are less and less marriages. The good news is that they last much more than before

We got married lessWe married laterBut … do we get married worse? Are our more weak marriages? Do we divorce more today than at the time of our parents or grandparents? There is studies that ensure that more than 50% of the couples who give the ‘yes I want’ in Spain end up separating, but New research American has just delved into that data with a curious revelation: today it is much more rare than a newly married couple to separate after ten years of conjugal life than those that joined 50 or 60 years ago. The big question is … why? Condemned to divorce? Recently he Institute for Family Studies (IFS), an American institution that is dedicated among other things to conduct studies on families and marriage, it was done An interesting question: Is the old mantra true that half of the marriages end up in court signing their divorce? It is not a minor issue. First, because at least in the US it looks like a popular mantra. Second, because that bulky percentage equals the chances of succeeding in conjugal life with those of launching a currency and that is expensive. What did you discover? For his investigation, the IFS took advantage of the data of the US Census Officeso his conclusions are basically a relay of what happens on the other side of the Atlantic. Making clear that starting point, it is not unreasonable to think that the patterns and trends that it has identified are more or less transferable to Europe. The reason? His experts discovered a very clear phenomenon: although it is true that every time We get less marriedcouples who give the ‘yes I want’ today create unions much more solid than those of a few decades, when there were many more people who formalize their relationship. Click on the image to go to Tweet. What do the figures say? That alone 18% of marriages formalized between 2010 and 2012 divorced after ten years. It is a percentage somewhat higher than that of the couples who married in the 1950s, but it is below those who gave the ‘yes I want’ in the 60, 70, 80 and 90. Ifl has not published their data in detail, but it has prepared a revealing graph that shows that the percentage of marriages of the 1970s dissolved after ten years was around 30%. Moreover, according to their data it is not correct that half of the marriages end up breaking. Taking into account its most recent records, that percentage Round 40%. And his forecast is that he descends as time passes. What does that mean? “The new marriages are more solid today than in any other decade since the 50s. Although the new marriages in the 2000 collect the report. “We have verified an increase in stability since the late 1970s. And so far the marriages formed in the 2010 maintains.” Are there more readings? After accounting the IFL discovered that the percentage of dissolved marriages after ten years of relationship varied considerably depending on when the couples had married. Among those who did in the 50s represented 14%, among those of the 60s 18%, in the case of married couples in the 70s the divorce percentage reached 30%and those of the 80s, 27%. Since then that indicator has decreased to 18%. If we talk about the risk of rupture, among the official marriages in the decade of 2000 the culminating point is five years of relationship. From that moment the risk is slowly decreasing. In the case of marriages created in the 70s the “high point of instability” occurs at age eight. What about gray divorce? The IFL points out that curiously what seems to gain relevance is the “Gray Divorce”the one that occurs between couples over 50 years after decades of relationship. It is nothing new, nor exclusive to the US. In 2022 the INE scored 80,000 divorces In Spain, of which 33% occurred between marriages that had more than two decades together. The IFL however recalls that most married people over 60 years of age went through the altar in the 70s and 80s. Click on the image to go to Tweet. What does all that mean? That the resistance of marriages seems to have evolved with society itself. The percentage of divorces was low in the 50s, increased after “the cultural transformation of the 1960s and 1970s radically changed the stability of the unions” and has been reconfigured as couples did, less and less prone to marry. “The most recent marriages have already shown greater stability, which could be due to the fact that they are more selective,” the study slides. They are valuations in the light of US data, but Spain has experienced its own drift. In our country a milestone was marked by the approval of the Divorce law In 1981. Have couples changed? Yes. And that is something that The study American also reflects clearly. If in the 1980s 80% of the people married before they turn 30, between 2000 and 2012 that percentage had declined to 64%. The trend is transferable to our country. Last year the CEU demographic observatory published A report It shows that the probability of ceasing to be single before the age of 50 has gone from representing almost 100% to move between 43 and 47%, depending on whether we talk about men or women. Do we get married later? Yeah. The analysis CEU also confirms that in the 70s between 85 and 90% of the people who married they did it before 30 years. Today that percentage does not even reach 20%. In 1976 the Spaniards who were married for the first time had average 26.7 years (24.1 if we talk about women). In 2022 the figure was already 36.8, or 34.9 in the case of brides. The report, however, reaches a different conclusion from that of the IFS on divorces: according to their accounts, 50% of the unions end up in rupture, … Read more

The marriages of Japanese women with South Korean men have shot themselves. There is a word that explains it: Hallyu

Last June Japan I had a lesson For the world after years of pro-nature policies, although a very little encouraging lesson: its fertility and the number of births continued to fall. All kinds of proposals had passed along the way, Even money and husband For women who opted for the countryside instead of the capital. However, what few could expect is that marriages are shooting, but those of Japanese with South Koreans, and not vice versa. An unexpected boom. Yeah, Nikkei had That, in recent years, marriages between Japanese women and South Korean men have experienced unpublished growth, with an increase of 40% only in the last year, reaching their highest point in a decade. Reasons? Apparently, the phenomenon is framed within a broader tendency of international marriages In South Korea, which represents about 10% of all unions, in contrast to the general drop of 30% in the total number of marriages in the country during the last decade. Although most of the international marriages In Korea they are with people from Vietnam or China, Japanese unions have grown up 13% between 2019 and 2024far exceeding the rhythm of other nationalities. This trend is driven not only by cultural and demographic factors, but also by a symbolic transformation into bilateral relations, in which romance becomes an unexpected route of approach between two peoples historically marked by tensions. Hallyu as a catalyst. The rise of these marriages has its origin, to a large extent, in the cultural phenomenon of the Hallyu U “Korean wave”, which since the early 2000s has radically transformed the perception that Japanese women have from South Korea. Here are phenomena such as Winter Sonata television dramaissued in Japan in 2003, starting point for a transgenerational fascination that is today manifested in passions by the K-Pophe Korean cinema and the Seoul fashion. For many Japanese, interest began In adolescence with school series and musical idols, and It has been transforming in an attraction for the South Korean lifestyle as a whole. This process has resulted in deep affective ties With Korean cultureto the point that moving to South Korea and marrying a national becomes for many a personal and cultural fulfillment, not just emotional. Cross perceptions. Plus: both Japanese women and South Korean men manifest favorable perceptions of the other. The means that the Japanese value that the Koreans express their affection with greater intensity, are more attentive and emotionally close, they maintain frequent contact by phone and surprise with details. South Korean men, meanwhile, see in Japanese women educated, dedicated, discreet and with a strong sense of family duty. Despite cultural differences, both parties seem to find in the other an idealized version of what they do not find in their own country. These opinions arise not only personal interviews, but According to Nikkei, Also of marriage advice and palpable samples on social networks, where testimonies and publications of happy couples that portray their joint life abound. New globalized romance. There is much more, since in the heat of this trend they have emerged specialized services that facilitate these unions. Applications to match Japanese with South Koreans, online games, social networks and marriage agencies have turned what was previously an occasional crossing into an increasingly common path. Hanny Marriagefor example, it is a company founded in 2024 by a married Japanese with a South Korean who met in language exchanges, and that detected a growing demand for South Korean men interested in marrying with Japanese women. The previous experience of religious agencies such as The Church of Unification In the 1980s and 1990s it has been replaced by more modern forms, mediated by technology and by business initiatives with cultural sensitivity. History with deep roots. He marriage exchange Between Japan and South Korea it has Historical history complexes, from Korean marriages with Japanese at the time of Japanese economic boom, to organized group weddings For religious sects. That said, what distinguishes the current phenomenon is its voluntary, individualized and mediated character For pop culture. What began as an admiration for idols and dramas has become a wave of human connections that demolish ancient barriers. The presence of reality shows as Premarital Lovewhere we see group quotes between Korean men and Japanese women, it is another sample of how this type of relationship is not only accepted, but celebrated and even commercially driven. In a context where demography and the fall of marriages They worry to both countriesthese unions represent a Unexpected ray of hope, both for those who are looking for a couple and for those who want history between Japan and Korea to advance in a more optimistic tone. Image | Cambodia In Xataka | In South Korea offered 14,000 euros to young people in exchange for them to get married. Young people did the same In Xataka | Seoul is so desperate to activate his birth rate that he has had an idea: give € 700 to those who marry

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