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I once participated in a women’s seminar led by a relationship expert. After greeting the group of more than 150 participants, the first question he asked was: “If you like a man who mistreats you, raise your hand.”
We were all surprised and looked at each other with a bewildered expression until the psychologist said jokingly: “ugh!! It’s good that no one raised their hand,” and we all started laughing.
Obviously it was a trick question, because no woman likes insults, hits, coldness, and much less betrayal. But the reality is that many women do not fall in love with someone who treats them like a princess and would never play with their feelings, but rather they become obsessed with an idiot who makes them suffer and breaks their hearts. For this reason, many men say: “women are masochists, when you treat them well they despise you and when you treat them badly they fall in love.”
That’s a lie! Every woman is fascinated by being treated like a queen. There are no masochistic women, but there are women with low self-esteem. If a woman is insecure and thinks that she does not have much to offer, she will believe that she cannot get a great man and, therefore, she allows someone in her life who talks down to her, humiliates her or wants to control her. In other words, a woman who does not value herself settles for an idiot who mistreats her.
If you are in a relationship where anyone would think you are a masochist, it is time to value yourself and believe in yourself. Your luck in love will depend on the opinion you have of yourself. If you think that you are a weak and insecure woman, you will surely attract a man who wants to dominate and humiliate you, but if you think that you are a fun and intelligent woman, you will attract a man who wants to respect you.
Anyway, as my saying goes: “Tell me your level of self-esteem and I’ll tell you who wants you.”
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